tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53366771261146676682024-03-13T07:50:20.113-07:00童記童童的成長日記Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-13211584641860220072011-09-28T01:06:00.000-07:002011-09-28T01:23:17.122-07:00慢慢走<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhH05zpTuyihEETxQHG6qHO0mX_aNAWmGUBbh7nkfsxlMKzeRTvTgY7vwiVg3y-Km5nLZhnyZFSMJPP816w7TmX7ZgI-NFbBiwq9XxfwHZxTORW4aYHZbrblDRPbpv1r2AJu75SHHph856l/s1600/P1060888s.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 250px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhH05zpTuyihEETxQHG6qHO0mX_aNAWmGUBbh7nkfsxlMKzeRTvTgY7vwiVg3y-Km5nLZhnyZFSMJPP816w7TmX7ZgI-NFbBiwq9XxfwHZxTORW4aYHZbrblDRPbpv1r2AJu75SHHph856l/s400/P1060888s.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657319776190295426" /></a><p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">很快(又好像很漫長)來到《普門》育兒專欄的尾聲,有一種“終於解脫了”的感覺。因為寫這個專欄寫得很心虛,當然是因為很清楚知道自己不是甚麼育兒專家,也不是一個很稱職的媽媽。只能大驚小怪地記錄一些寶寶成長的小幸福,或聊些一般新手媽媽都會經歷的心路歷程,但都不會覺得有甚麼特別精彩的趣事或了不起的心得。</span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">當然,也是因為發覺自己當了媽媽後,好像變笨了。不但文章寫得慢,連文筆也退到了荒古時代,惨不忍睹。雖然努力推辭過,但普門編輯慈悲的包容,還是勉強讓稿出街了,而我每次一把稿寄出去後就不敢再回望了。這樣的挫敗,大概是從當媽的挫敗而延續的。</span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">也許是長年累月開始在瑣事里鑽,看書的時間少了,慢慢也煉就成了</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">C9 </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">(師奶)俗氣。說婚姻是自掘墳墓等待腐化似乎沒錯,然而說當媽的辛苦也只是藉口,因為大把人當媽當得輕鬆寫意,又逍遙快活。比如一個剛結婚不久生完小孩的朋友,竟能把不到半歲的孩子丟給家婆照顧,而自己則跟丈夫去旅行玩樂,就不曉得該妒忌還是羨慕。但還是最佩服那些能把孩子帶得服服貼貼,又能把家事打理得井然有序的媽媽,真的是讓我肅然起敬。</span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">像我媽那一輩的女人更不得了,大一群孩子都是身為母親的親手帶大,每天除了要料理家事、張羅一家大小的伙食外,有些還要工作幫補家計。更何況那個年代物資匱乏,沒有洗衣機或甚麼微波爐之類的家電方便工作,但記憶中的校服好像都刷得白淨淨的,而媽媽煮的每道菜都是香噴噴的。。。回望自己,不但家事做得一團糟,媽媽的手藝也沒有學到幾招,所以沒本事煮出甚麼拿手好菜,沒法把自己的孩子養得白白胖胖。有時煮出來的東西還會讓孩子的爸嚇了一跳,雖然他還是會忍耐地吃完,但恐怕會養成孩子越來越挑食的壞習慣,因為煮來煮去就是那幾樣而已。</span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">有人說,只有一個孩子的人就是覺得養孩子是件很挑戰的事,因為獨生子/女會比較霸道,難以管教。所以我周圍的婆婆媽媽姑姑姊姊都會一直勸我,一定要再多生至少一個,姊姊還耳提面命的說:“相信我,你不多生一個,你一定會後悔的!”聽起來似乎真的是蠻嚴肅的事,但經過這些日子以來的深刻體會,真的自覺到自己不是一個好母親,至少一些育兒專家所要求的一些事情,自己都一直沒辦法做好,或做得到。</span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">當然,育兒教育的派別也很多,而所謂的“好媽媽”也沒有一個標準,講來講去大概的總結不外都是一個“愛”字。但要怎麼做,才算是真的愛孩子呢?有個蠻認同虎媽育兒經的朋友一直很用心教導孩子,她孩子在大概兩歲時就會認字背乘法表等之類的驚人表現;然而另一個對華德福教育略有研究的朋友卻告訴我說,太早讓孩子正式學習和評價,會讓孩子的</span></span><span style="color:#000000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">时间和空间被成人和社会的要求所侵占,儿童被迫变成了小大人,童年逐渐消逝,孩子失去了成长的自由。</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="color:#000000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">這樣聽起來,我們總是會無意將自我的期許加在孩子身上,很多時候,我們用心所付出的愛,也許不一定對孩子是好的,更不用說一般因太愛孩子而造成的寵愛及溺愛了。所以這個“愛”字,真的是知易行難。</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">無論是虎媽的嚴格教育還是華德福的心靈教育,我都一直在黑白的灰色地帶中探索,戰戰兢兢地像走鋼索般,慢慢走著這條充滿挑戰的育兒之路。</span></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-13527383179143156372011-09-28T00:57:00.000-07:002011-09-28T01:41:43.819-07:00小車迷<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUel8Qm3m7ChrB4SLtDCI6SzZJwmB9F7rFyRVMW6wv0KD7Ei1kSsCyre_5f4knne1v6mh7cJGLsf6WwLG0Rqu5FJUsmIG8eK_LnhQHzn4L8praSp5P_9SZNDgKOajPndadBoq_RVmP1cvS/s1600/P1060866s.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUel8Qm3m7ChrB4SLtDCI6SzZJwmB9F7rFyRVMW6wv0KD7Ei1kSsCyre_5f4knne1v6mh7cJGLsf6WwLG0Rqu5FJUsmIG8eK_LnhQHzn4L8praSp5P_9SZNDgKOajPndadBoq_RVmP1cvS/s400/P1060866s.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657318461549901442" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span><p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">童童愛車,愛到超越了我所能理解的程度。大概四、五個月大的時候,他就對車特別有興趣。當時他雖然自己不能行動,需要人抱,但卻能很有“主見”地發出“嗯嗯嗯”的聲音搖著身軀“指示”你帶他去他要去的方向。而他最喜歡我帶他去屋外的空地,看大道上來來往往的車輛,特別是龐大的卡車或巴士經過時,他總會提起小手指一下驚嘆地“噢”一聲,有時兩母子就這樣傻呼呼地在空地轉幾圈而耗掉了一個午後。</span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="color:#000000;"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">等到他會坐的時候,有次他在婆婆家時,剛好屋外有輛大型卡車在鋪路,平時好動坐不住的他竟然可以乖乖坐在高椅不動,烏溜溜的大眼睛眨也不眨一下地專注看卡車的一舉一動,大概可以耐半個小時之久,讓我這個對機械完全沒有興趣的媽媽大感不解:到底這個又吵又龐大的巨物有什麽好看的呢?</span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">這樣癡迷的一頁掀開后,童童對車子的熱愛越來越顯著。沒錯,無可避免的必須給他買玩具車,但幸好他的表哥堂哥也是小車迷,送了不少二手玩具車給童童,讓我們做爸媽的省了不少錢。只是那些玩具車幾乎都無法逃過被他拆解的命運,不是把輪胎拆散了,就是把門拆解了。如果是那種有裝電池的電動車,他一定會翻開底部,拆下電池研究一番,</span></span></span><span lang="zh-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">再裝回去測試</span></span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">不同按鍵的反應等,儼然像個小工程師。</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">除了玩具,看書時他一定會先翻開交通工具那頁,看畫面時也是先注意到車子,即使那輛車子只不過是畫面裏不起眼的小背景。而最傷媽媽心的是,好不容易盼到他開口説話時,先叫的不是 “媽”,而是“</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">qia”</span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">(車的福建發音)。因此,我不得不懷疑他愛車的程度,已經超越了</span></span></span><span lang="zh-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">我這個</span></span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">媽媽。</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">有次在逛書展的時候,童童竟然可以在一片書海中發現一本小書,裏面全是車子的圖,他興奮地指著它喊:車,車,車!就是要我非買不可。還有一次在逛街時,經過賣光碟的店門口,發現車卡通(</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Cars</span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">)的海報,竟然會吵著要看這部戯。這讓我這個當媽的很挫折,因爲處心積慮為他準備了很多圖書,但他幾乎只找有車的圖,</span></span></span><span lang="zh-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">每天早上</span></span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">睡醒第一件想到的事,就是車子。</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">平時</span></span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">看見爸爸洗車時,他也會忙著推出自己的學步車,跟我要了一片抹布后,便學爸爸似模似樣地“洗”起車來,認真地模樣煞是可愛。但後遺症是,接下來他洗澡時也會帶上一兩輛小玩具車進去浴室,幫車子“洗澡”,過後還會用布抹干,再凃點粉,真的是令人哭笑不得。</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">有次家裏的車子輪胎漏氣了,爸爸在旁換輪胎,他也吵著要拿工具換自己的小輪胎。過後跟爸爸去輪胎修理中心時,更是大開眼界。看見店裏許許多多的大小輪胎,還有那些大哥哥手腳利落地換胎修胎,他簡直看到入了神,寧願不去隔壁的咖啡店坐下等輪胎修好,堅持要待在悶熱的店裏看人家工作。</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">看到他如此癡迷的模樣,我便想起有個朋友在面子書的分享到,有個孩子告訴他爸爸說他想要當黑手,他爸爸聼后不悅,並帶兒子去汽車維修中心看黑手的工作,並說那是沒出息的工作。看了這段分享,我第一個反應是覺得自己應該不會像那個父親那樣專制,但我想象如果有天童童也說他想當黑手的話,我能接受嗎?</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span lang="zh-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">坦白說,多少還是有點接受不來的。</span></span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">許多專家不斷提醒家長要尊重孩子是個獨立的個體,不要把自己的理想強加在孩子</span></span></span><span lang="zh-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">身上。</span></span></span><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">看來我這個當媽的要開始好好修練這項功課,</span></span></span><span style="color:#000000;"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">讓孩子在自我探索的過程中,能在自己的光影中找到幸福的方向</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#000000;"><span lang="zh-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">。</span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-37551774937782511002010-12-12T05:34:00.001-08:002011-09-28T01:42:51.014-07:00童牙<div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">童童大概三四個月的時候,就開始有要長牙的跡象。開始是先吃手手,然後就很愛咬東西,應該是牙齦很</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">癢</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">。因此,我們就特地去選了兩個牙膠給他咬,一個是裏面沒有水只有軟膠的透明魚,另一個是裏面有水而表面是有浮點的大象圈。</span></span></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">然而,那時他還不是很會把東西放進嘴巴(還不能計算拿在手上的東西與手掌之間的距離,總是會把東西放到鼻</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">子</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">上),就算我們幫他把牙膠塞進他的嘴裏,他</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">也</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">沒有如我們想象般地很喜歡咬牙膠,最後還是選擇吃自己的小手手(雖然知道這樣不是很衛生,但看他把胖胖的小手塞進小嘴裏的模樣,真的非常可愛)。過後,他還看中了他大姨送給他的絨布長頸鹿,但布娃生毛,也不是很想給他咬。幸好後來在西馬買了一個比較硬的水果串能符合他的</span></span></span><span style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">“</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">口味</span></span></span><span style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">”</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">,才可以讓他毫無顧忌地咬咬咬。</span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">聽説寶寶再長牙階段會有很多狀況,比如會發燒或半夜哭閙之類的,幸好這段日子童童除了比較厭奶之外,沒有太多的不適。經歷了近一個月磨咬,童童下邊的兩顆小門牙終于在近五個月大(</span></span></span><span style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">2010/03/24</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">)時長出來了。兩顆小小的下門牙,努力破肉而出。只要童童一咧嘴笑,就會自豪地露出來。</span></span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">然而,牙雖長出來了,但他牙齦還是很養。我們便買了一些小餅乾,有較硬的餅條、也有較軟的米餅,但太硬的他都不會吃,只會吃容易融化的米餅。過後,一個新加坡朋友送他一罐</span></span></span><span style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Gerber</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">的小米餅粒,包裝</span></span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">上</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">寫明説是適合給</span></span></span><span style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">crawler</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">的,雖然那個時候童童還沒開始爬,但它像</span></span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">小珊瑚狀(或小花型)的樣子,很受童童的喜愛。</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">我每次把它放在小碗裏,讓童童自己抓來吃,順便訓練他的手指肌肉。</span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">長牙后的童童,特別愛咬人,幸好他只是咬我,偶爾咬一下他爸爸。別看小子牙小小顆,一被他咬還真要命,因爲他只咬你一層薄皮,而且是使盡全力,所以每次都會有瘀青。我媽說不能讓他習慣性咬人,所以在他咬人時要兇他、掌他的嘴,可是我每次掌他,他卻笑得更開心,大概是我不夠兇,他老爸就會在旁嘆氣說:唉,慈母多敗兒!(但也不見得他</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">能兇到他啊!)</span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">兩個月後,童童的上門牙也迫不及待地露出了白邊,就這樣平均每兩個月就長兩顆牙的進度下,童童大概在十一個月大的時候就長了八顆門牙。停了一段日子后,到了十</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">三</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">個</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">多</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">月大(</span></span></span><span style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">2010/11/18</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">)</span></span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">時,才再</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">發現他上邊的臼齒也冒出來了,</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">不到一個月内,</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">他的</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">左邊的</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">上下</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">犬齒</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">也</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">長出來了。</span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">因此,很快地童童就會有一幅完整的牙齒,所以要更加照顧口腔的衛生(之前只是在洗澡時用手帕幫他“刷”牙,但幾乎天天被咬)。我們特地幫他買了一把新的牙刷,也讓他嘗試自己刷。第一次自己刷牙的童童感到非常新鮮,一直煞有其事不停地刷,洗澡完后還是不停地刷。也許還未長齊的牙齦真的很癢,但最讓媽媽感到</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">安慰</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">的是,他發牙的過程都很順利,就算</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">發大牙都沒有大閙</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">,</span></span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">真的是要感謝神靈。</span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">現在的童童,可以吃很多東西了,每次把大塊一點的東西放進他的嘴巴,都會不斷提醒他:要記得咬噢!看見他認真咬(他還不是很會咀嚼)的模樣,真的覺得很有趣。這樣的點點滴滴,雖記起來有點瑣碎記,但看到童牙一顆顆地長出來,真是有種幸福的感覺。</span></span></span><span style=" line-height: 18px; color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; "><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJscwCk29qsPIWLzOiylNR7wMKnicihFqHU6dYn5ABL-DG9ziKQ_dzLVloe1QCF44UOhsOGVOBvrA_-vOtnV3m11B1SrAkraFHlVdm1VkCzr0AAogMOwyRCHQQoaNERfF8ZgNVHBRN2WfT/s1600/P1010260.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJscwCk29qsPIWLzOiylNR7wMKnicihFqHU6dYn5ABL-DG9ziKQ_dzLVloe1QCF44UOhsOGVOBvrA_-vOtnV3m11B1SrAkraFHlVdm1VkCzr0AAogMOwyRCHQQoaNERfF8ZgNVHBRN2WfT/s400/P1010260.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5550956755377709698" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /></a></span></span></p><div></div><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">開始咬長頸鹿</span></span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvuMcwA3vsCpeq8m-0OslqT25S9PF6XUW0XjhVS62j6DBmYWGsJDC4l9iU0U9HZzdo0cVSXqjErx1kCRCxLxjiPKu5YCPxKlAnfpR0gC-UuJs3oLCFCp2o1EfXq_kQgx4BYUHR2ROu37CS/s400/P1010329.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5550956762628264114" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /></span></span></p><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">然後就咬水果</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1RQ66S6UFLgAkfcyK5QfiUezsJabMdS2zPs5B7DM3jq24y62G3L6qjbtirFS2jDWDpOIw_HO4SHKPQzlSOIZy8wBFKffhlDBZwxYBbSy8YcTb6EqUO3q7UDVprLRHTbydJI8MHTO3GCk3/s1600/P1010590.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1RQ66S6UFLgAkfcyK5QfiUezsJabMdS2zPs5B7DM3jq24y62G3L6qjbtirFS2jDWDpOIw_HO4SHKPQzlSOIZy8wBFKffhlDBZwxYBbSy8YcTb6EqUO3q7UDVprLRHTbydJI8MHTO3GCk3/s400/P1010590.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5550956769664036498" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 350px; height: 400px; " /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">後來才喜歡大象</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: normal; "><div style="text-align: center; font-size:12pt;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: normal; color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZeuS_Wwv_n9FQB7jl1JERRjmKEoZuW8btgDkdWtaNgu3i5JJjKB5yHcbppEjZhppLiVjgUrta13FMDwfWfQKnBxG8EZhBFIP7zjHrOgbkqQOx8JLIluhM8RSktHYblClDea8KLOV6_sOP/s400/P1010348.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5550959450744381730" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /></span></span></div><div><span lang="ZH-TW" style="line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: normal; -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">有天他發現他的魚可以拿來這樣玩</span></span></span></span></div></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" line-height: 18px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></span></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnYUpGcUVY3n6v3Rt7Gt_zaWcKy1hIzKVEdenWFtnPkkBLxpyMWU7vjCDwmAsq-tbVjF-z5V_W-3Aakz6xcMU3TLtbyNv3aowR_B1LQKIsLNEqYGS4sjlkrTI6sgNcm-eDTj-04arxmwSI/s1600/P1030529.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 314px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnYUpGcUVY3n6v3Rt7Gt_zaWcKy1hIzKVEdenWFtnPkkBLxpyMWU7vjCDwmAsq-tbVjF-z5V_W-3Aakz6xcMU3TLtbyNv3aowR_B1LQKIsLNEqYGS4sjlkrTI6sgNcm-eDTj-04arxmwSI/s400/P1030529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5550957124757367122" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">咧嘴大笑的童童,看到八顆牙牙了!</span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1RQ66S6UFLgAkfcyK5QfiUezsJabMdS2zPs5B7DM3jq24y62G3L6qjbtirFS2jDWDpOIw_HO4SHKPQzlSOIZy8wBFKffhlDBZwxYBbSy8YcTb6EqUO3q7UDVprLRHTbydJI8MHTO3GCk3/s1600/P1010590.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"></a></span></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGRI3qfT8R6emCsL1HSqID20oP6-LzGrq7ui9KDJSthbc-oM_01b7hf9ffR6ux493zat23EgZ8qM11vG2YYy9nM6L_LqwU-zV9JOtL99T1iIvQUGT8raHT-Fa_jz1Xs1E4sFERDq63JxoG/s400/P1040602.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5551073928561668802" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 332px; height: 400px; " /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">童童第一次自己刷牙</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJscwCk29qsPIWLzOiylNR7wMKnicihFqHU6dYn5ABL-DG9ziKQ_dzLVloe1QCF44UOhsOGVOBvrA_-vOtnV3m11B1SrAkraFHlVdm1VkCzr0AAogMOwyRCHQQoaNERfF8ZgNVHBRN2WfT/s1600/P1010260.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"></a></span></span><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style=" ;font-size:12pt;"><br /></span></p></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-857804973438539072010-11-28T09:15:00.000-08:002010-11-28T09:32:44.195-08:00叫媽太沉重<div><br /></div><div>童童在第三個月的時候生了一場大病,這一病可非同小可。第一次搭小飛機回馬魯帝婆婆家后回來,也許受了點風寒,有點小感冒。原本只是流點鼻涕,輕微咳嗽,但過後有點感冒的爸爸在傍晚時分抱他到院子走一圈后,病情就加重了。隔天醒來時咳嗽帶痰,嗑嗑嗑,咳得好厲害。<div><br />開始只是抱他去私人診所看看,醫生說暫時還未感染肺部,但如果情況繼續嚴重下去(如一天内咳嗽超過十聲就算嚴重),就要服用抗生素,不然細菌感人肺部,後果就不堪設想。拿了葯,還有一瓶抗生素(這個醫生沒有強迫我們買,但因隔天是公假,怕情況危急時沒有醫生看備用的)。但抗生素一服,就要連續服用五天,心裏是壓根兒不會用的,只是付錢買個安心。結果隔天,童童的情況果然更糟。不只一天内咳嗽超過十聲,還嚴重到沒辦法喝奶。不過那瓶抗生素,我們還是沒有打開用,而是直接把童童送進醫院,詳細檢查。</div><div><br />來到了醫院的急診室,醫護人員聼說童童沒辦法喝奶,便領我們到哮喘病童專用的房間,使用一個有點像氧氣筒的儀器,釋放出有葯的蒸氣給童童吸,通順童童的鼻喉。這樣的療程大約需要半個小時以上的時間(直到筒裏的葯釋放完畢),所以在等待的當兒我們也順便跟其他人閒聊。會來到這個房裏的孩子大部分患有哮喘(除了童童例外),他們都要定時(視情況的嚴重程度而定)來這裡靠氣筒來維持生命。看見他們大部分都雙眼深陷、面容憔悴,内心也為他們感到難過。經過這個療程后(雖然開始他不太願意,不過後來可能覺得蠻舒服的就乖乖合作),童童整個人感覺也比較輕鬆了,還會咧嘴笑。但爲了慎重起見,醫護人員還是為童童照X-光,發現他的肺部有點疑似受感染的跡象,便建議童童留院觀察。</div><div><br />又要住院,我拖著有點沉重的心情再次走進兒童病房,而這一次來到醫院走一圈,深深體會人生無常,因爲看到許多不幸的小孩。其中一個是在童童的床位對面患有嚴重哮喘的寶寶,只有四個月大就需要光著身子(只穿件尿片)遍身插滿針管,還需要時不時靠氣筒吸氣。也許因爲呼吸困難,寶寶不斷哭閙,而在一旁媽媽也感到很無奈。記得有入院的當晚,寶寶的情況突然很危急,醫護人員慌忙地把他推進急診室搶救,而無法為孩子分擔痛苦的媽媽只能在病房等待干着急。握著手機不斷打電話給家人,也不斷地流淚哭泣。我走上前去,想要安慰她卻不曉得該說些什麽。幸好很快地她的家人來了,一起安撫她的情緒。而她的寶寶也在幾個小時的搶救后,再度回到病房,繼續觀察。</div><div><br />而另外一個是在童童隔壁床的孩子,約兩嵗的他因肺部嚴重感染細菌而導致休克,除了遍身針管,還有大小儀器圍在他的床邊。一直守護在孩子身邊的父親幽幽地告訴我們,他的孩子已經昏迷超過一個星期了,但卻沒有絲毫起色。原來這孩子本來只是一般的傷風咳嗽,可是當孩子咳得越來越厲害的時候他們沒有馬上求醫。當發現情況嚴重的時候,他們因住在偏遠的林夢(離美裏需3個小時的車程),而來不及趕到醫院醫治。“這是我們結婚十年后,才好不容易盼到的孩子,卻因爲我們的疏忽而害了他。”父親語氣平靜卻沉重地道出他的懊悔,而在旁的我們聼了心情也異常沉重。因爲父母的小疏忽,而造成孩子一生的大遺憾,可以見得父母的責任何其大啊!我緊緊抱著懷裏的小寶貝,也深深為自己的照顧疏忽讓他生病受苦而感到歉疚。</div><div><br />這樣的歉疚,在過後醫生確定不得不服用抗生素后,更是加深。雖然經過一天的觀察后,童童就出院了。但因爲服用抗生素后童童不斷腹瀉(這次的抗生素要連續服用七天),造成小屁股紅腫,也難以進食,吃了不少苦頭。這個過程真的是很煎熬,一方面要心疼寶寶受苦,一方面要撐起身子,按時喂葯、量體溫、日以繼夜地照顧鬧情緒的寶寶。但這些辛苦跟那些在需要在醫院照顧孩子的父母相比,好像很微不足道,所以就變得比較可以承受了。幸好這樣痛苦的日子大概持續幾天,童童很快就康復了,而且自那次大病一場后,就再也沒有。。。(噢!要小小聲說)。。。添太多麻煩了。<br /></div><div><br /></div></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvw6_jUvMYcQ4EY-JQ4PXmhyphenhyphen2jaCC2Szm-ChZip3aRvu4eSaVnTKwhkVooUIvwj5Ftz5yo1FYaUY6r5BylpiEMjVCrv2IS2-fd97_jEnEk8r1yVhWz3cQe4vS8ocjPR9awdg67aVBSUsUv/s1600/P1000740.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 338px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvw6_jUvMYcQ4EY-JQ4PXmhyphenhyphen2jaCC2Szm-ChZip3aRvu4eSaVnTKwhkVooUIvwj5Ftz5yo1FYaUY6r5BylpiEMjVCrv2IS2-fd97_jEnEk8r1yVhWz3cQe4vS8ocjPR9awdg67aVBSUsUv/s400/P1000740.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5544654338074831250" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >大病初愈的童童,會笑了。</span></span></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-83761266599061550762010-11-16T20:06:00.001-08:002010-11-17T20:40:06.387-08:00做媽的,真累!<div style="font-family: arial;"><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">當媽的喜悅</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">很快就得到了挫敗。</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">寶寶在第一次驗黃的時候(出世后的第三天),有些偏高。隔天小便還帶血,弄得做媽的緊張兮兮馬上帶他去醫院檢查。由於沒有拿到寶寶的尿液,因此醫護人員無法化驗</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-CN">而需留院觀察。</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">第一次跟寶寶在醫院過夜的經歷,實在是疲累得刻苦銘心。因爲剛生産后的身子還很虛脫,傷口也很痛,而寶寶因爲沒有奶喝(當時還未分泌奶水)</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-CN">或有點不舒服,</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">一直哇哇大哭,讓我根本無法好好合上眼躺下休息。由於醫院禁止使用奶瓶,</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-CN">所以想</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">給寶寶喝</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-CN">點</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">水都不行。因爲寶寶吸人奶會比吸奶瓶較爲費力,所以有些寶寶用過奶瓶后就會拒絕吸母乳。而唯一的辦法就是不斷給寶寶吸吮母乳,刺激乳房腺分泌奶水。但這對元氣尚未復原的媽媽真是一大折磨,一邊心疼寶寶被餓着了,一邊在哭閙聲中精疲力盡</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-CN">地渡過漫漫長夜。</span></div><div style="font-family: arial;"><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">還好,在病房裏遇見一個華伊混血的媽媽,趁護士不在的時候偷偷挨近我的床位,塞了一瓶驚風散教我沖點給寶寶喝。寶寶喝后果然見效,馬上穩穩地入睡了。而第二天醫生觀察后判斷那只是一般男嬰的生理狀況,應該沒什麽大礙,便讓我們出院了。但寶寶還是有點偏黃,出院后我家婆便用一種草藥給寶寶洗澡,而我則努力給他曬太陽,童童的姑姑則建議給他吃維他命</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" >E</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">,三管齊下的努力,終于在第二次驗黃的時候順利</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-CN">過關。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">接下來要面對的便是哺乳的挑戰。</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">一心一意想給寶寶全母乳哺喂的媽媽,卻沒有想到因爲奶水不足,所以寶寶一直吃不飽,躺沒有兩下就哇哇哭閙要吃奶,而在坐月的媽媽幾乎需要全天候一直把寶寶挂在胸前。我嘗試了很多方法:從擠奶器的輔助、吃些聽説能補充奶水的食物(如喝木瓜湯,甚至吃了一種朋友介紹的草藥</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" >-Funugreek</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">),但都無法改善。最讓人沮喪的是,滿月時的寶寶只增加了約</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" >600</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">克的重量,纖瘦得令人好心疼。在經歷了種種煎熬后,意志薄弱的媽媽終于退而求其次,決定雙管齊下,除了母乳外也給寶寶喝奶粉。自此之後,寶寶才開始吃得飽、睡得穩,體重也一點一點增加,慢慢肥壯起來。</span><span class="Apple-style-span"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">而我這個才上任不到一個月的新手媽媽,便想要舉起雙手投降說</span><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" lang="ZH-TW">:做媽的,真累!(讓我好好睡一覺吧!拜托)</span></p></div></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0vImit05SBnJWErOuJsobJK3snymxn1E7CpF-CnbcSe9xmkvIQJ814u9-WqSGF9Hzq28UeAB0fWo0NOypsfF5wTPY7u7hmDBDDZkQuOInRjaFYNr_PKzErTP-RO9qcBpLsPKvrUWDWa-K/s1600/all.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 304px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0vImit05SBnJWErOuJsobJK3snymxn1E7CpF-CnbcSe9xmkvIQJ814u9-WqSGF9Hzq28UeAB0fWo0NOypsfF5wTPY7u7hmDBDDZkQuOInRjaFYNr_PKzErTP-RO9qcBpLsPKvrUWDWa-K/s400/all.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5540563378149223298" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">初為人母,童童的一顰一笑都深深牽動媽媽的心</span></span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-47204513894123752992010-11-16T09:19:00.000-08:002010-11-17T08:01:43.965-08:00當媽初體驗<div>要當媽媽這囘事,對我而言一直是件不可思議的事。就如有個朋友說的:很難想象一個大孩子會去帶一個小孩子。沒錯,一個像幽浮那樣飄浮、不定性的人,不但選擇了婚姻,還在結婚一年后,辭去熱愛的工作,安安分分地待在家裏待產,成爲名副其實的宅媽。</div><div><div><br /></div><div>然而,放棄忙碌的職場生涯走入全職媽媽的生活,卻沒有比想象中的來得輕鬆。再忙碌的工作,只要把電腦的插頭拔掉、把手機丟進魚缸,都可以鑽進被窩裏懞頭大睡。可是做媽的,除了燒飯煮飯料理家務這等閒事外,最大的壓力莫過於要時時打起精神注意,守護寶寶的健康。</div><div><br /></div><div>從懷孕時期的步步爲營——除了不敢亂吃東西外,還要緊記那些不管信不信都好的婆婆媽媽禁忌,到生産時的步步驚心——經歷了每隔30秒的陣痛一天后才推入產房,再以生平最劇烈的撕痛,順利產下<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height: 115%;font-family:SimSun;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-bidi-font-family:PMingLiU; color:black;mso-ansi-language:EN-SG;mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">重達</span>三公斤的健康寶寶。承受過那樣的痛楚后,似乎再也沒有承受不起的皮肉之痛了,跟之後縫傷口的痛楚相比,縫針時只是感覺像螞蟻咬那麽小兒科。</div><div><br /></div><div>經過了大約一個小時呼天搶地的嘶喊后,護士在第一時間把像小貓一樣瘦小的娃娃放到我胸前,光溜溜的小身體趴在我胸前用烏溜溜的大眼睛開始張望這個世界。經過護士清洗及包裹后,寶寶才又再度回到我的身邊,小嘴一貼近乳頭就會自動吸吮,準備接收媽媽獻給寶寶的第一份禮物——母乳。之前撕裂的痛楚仿佛飛得好遠,這一刻的甜蜜溫暖,是做媽的最大滿足。但從那一刻開始,媽媽這個角色也開始立體得像墻上的挂鐘那樣,24小時不眠不休全天候運轉。</div></div><div><br /></div><div><i>後記:一年后才把生産時的心情寫下,許多畫面仍歷歷在目,仿佛如昨日。</i></div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeVvg2neh75kEmfIQVbsuR1HOFQc_aPESUDBC81hg2Po872UxAVxmG3MTGMktv20rZrbsbQhYfKomhsjb3AtnIQ5YUJLVBAShyBmx98Qdypw5xXlmlatbY54wfopU0QWvFL_XXTPUQGWRZ/s1600/simYuTong_b.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeVvg2neh75kEmfIQVbsuR1HOFQc_aPESUDBC81hg2Po872UxAVxmG3MTGMktv20rZrbsbQhYfKomhsjb3AtnIQ5YUJLVBAShyBmx98Qdypw5xXlmlatbY54wfopU0QWvFL_XXTPUQGWRZ/s400/simYuTong_b.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5540296295071406146" /></a><div><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">剛出世的童童,就會牽起嘴角微笑。(2009.09.30)</span></span></p></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-88752753476791097082010-11-09T20:20:00.000-08:002010-11-10T07:27:09.326-08:00你的一小步,我的一大步——放手<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; "><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">前兩天,童童終于勇敢地踏出自己人生的一小步。</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; ">無需再扶著小車車,在我鬆開他的小手之際,自己跌跌撞撞地邁開了幾個小步。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">這樣的小躍進,讓這個做媽媽的我興奮地大呼亂跳起來。看見媽媽那麽高興,穩穩站在地上的童童自己也咯咯的笑起來。而在旁工作的老公,也搖頭竊笑著對孩子說:這個媽媽,傻傻的哦。</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">這樣的小幸福,一直都想好好記錄下來。只是一直給自己很多藉口,一年過去了,除了不間斷地拍照及錄影外,就只有在一些社交網站留下一些零散的片言。十三個月大的他,用一般寶寶的進度努力學習與這個世界互動,我也許錯過了一些</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">巨細靡遺的記錄,卻不曾忘記每一個他烙印在我心裏的成長印記。除了如他笑容般純真的種種甜美回憶,當然還包括當媽媽的挫敗(一直覺得自己不是一個好媽媽)以及掙扎(一個需要巨大自我空間的媽媽如何忍受寶寶肆無忌憚的依賴),這樣的甜蜜負荷,沒有自己親自走過,無法深刻體會。</span><span lang="ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">而童童這次所跨出的這一小步,給了媽媽莫大的鼓勵,希望自己能更完整地記錄童童每一個成長足跡。朋友說:寫啊寫啊!等他十嵗的時候當成他的生日禮物送給他。</span><span lang="ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">十年后,會是一幅怎樣的光景啊!自己都不敢想象。唯一可以肯定的是,目前我有這個條件全心全意陪伴他,給他撒嬌給他賴,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; ">但</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">不想</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; ">讓有限的自己限制無限的他。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">今天有個朋友也分享了</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 16px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); ">黎巴嫩詩人紀伯</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 16px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); ">倫</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">的詩文:</span><span style="color: black; "><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; "><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">你的孩子不是你的孩子,他們是生命自己的孩子。</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">他們透過你來到這個世界,他們卻不屬於你。</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">你可以給他們你的愛,卻不能給他們你的思想,</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">因為他們有他們自己的思想。</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">你可以提供他們身體的住屋,卻不能替他們的靈魂找房子,</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">因為他們的靈魂住在明日之屋,那是你即使在夢中也無法到達的地方。</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">你可以努力像他們一樣,但是千萬不要使他們像你一樣,</span></span><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); "><br /></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">因為生命是無法逆轉的,更不能被昨日的你所耽擱</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 17px; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); ">。</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 16px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">我希望自己能一直記住這首詩,尤其是在充滿挑戰的明天,尤其是當孩子決定鬆開你的手,大步向前進的時候,要記得自己</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; ">只</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; ">是弓,而</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 16px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); ">孩子是从弦上发出的生命的箭矢。</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 16px; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); ">他會飛往你無法到達的地方,展翅、翺翔。</span></span></p></span></div><a 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lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height: 115%;font-family:SimSun;mso-ascii-font-family:Arial;mso-hansi-font-family:Arial; mso-bidi-font-family:Arial;color:#333333"><br /></span></span></p></span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5336677126114667668.post-66234736538497589952010-11-08T23:20:00.000-08:002010-11-09T20:19:53.494-08:00童童周歲生日<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; ">早上一起身便會手指小便桶發出嗯嗯聲然後用古怪的表情完成了大便開幕儀式</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; "><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">更洗后就在院子溜達享受清新空氣及剛好的陽光看看鴨子吃吃花草搖搖屁股跑</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">吃完半碗糙米粥后便跟堂哥一起嬉鬧咯咯笑不斷有時也大喊呱吵直到哥上學去</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">獨自玩樂時最愛手拿小車車口裏發出boom boom聲俯身在地上推著小車爬滿地</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">再喝瓶奶后就在婆婆房門前的搖籃裏在老舊風扇嗡嗡作響聲中沉沉地小睡一會</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">醒來后就會吃媽媽用心煮的南瓜粥邊吃要邊玩點東西才能乖乖坐好吃完一碗粥</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">媽媽在準備洗澡水的時候總是要用小手碰碰花灑灑下來的水才滿意地擺擺手笑</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">洗澡時興高采烈心地打打水玩泡泡玩得不亦樂乎直到一抱起身就會呱呱叫哭閙</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">光著身子時就會想盡辦法掙脫不願穿衣服要費了九牛二虎之力才能把衣服套上</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">也許有預感自己今天生日特別高興所以整個下午玩得稀里嘩啦而遲遲不肯午睡</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">晚餐前還要到院子逛逛追逐騎腳踏車的堂哥及爺爺養的狗狗然後再吃下半碗飯</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">吃到最後開始睡眼惺忪而在客廳的小床上睡去然後等大夥兒用完晚餐后再醒來</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">換上外婆送的新衣及新鞋子但第一次穿鞋就呱呱吵要一腳把鞋子從小腳腳甩開</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">在爺爺奶奶爸爸媽媽伯父母堂哥姐姑姑丈表姐的祝福下切下有牛牛的生日蛋糕</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">這樣平安地渡過一個如常有歡笑有哭閙正常吃喝大便正常調皮搗蛋的一嵗生日</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><br /></p></span><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6wGDhT0eNx_7sjOpR9bKRyaCit3at0GXU72oN1P24tdKaM-UxycOR0U4xBSO_3S3WrKA_4hZSsqV_HdnVEp3aTXKr92gPUuEh5N3eTVGeLZ4dlYniS0yyJyigqtg53xhzs4c3h8ShbD3z/s1600/birthday03.jpg"><br /></a></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 12px;"><br /></span></span><a 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src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOaFOFOYxQO5-BRfTKeJpqyaS8dmWlfyZP1ItynYuQPNT-betqDmeNZwx3yuUnB2NV4FImvJcOCt8jH3aCQQ1_fu-n_aVOU5nWMbwIWSjG1gsdXIQFHRifyFM1DKX0W1j0z0Y6l_hyphenhyphensBOD/s400/birthday01.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5537447754993723586" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); line-height: 12px; "><div style="text-align: center;">童童與堂哥姐表姐合照。</div></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 12px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><a 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class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 12px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); line-height: 12px; "></span></span><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; "><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); 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class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); line-height: 12px; ">還有媽媽喂童童吃壽麵。</span></span></div><p></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><br /></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "> </p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><div class="photo photo_none" 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